Many of us are looking for the right man that we can connect to and that we want to spend the rest of our lives with. For some of us all we have to do is turn around and he is waiting there for us with open arms. I was lucky enough to meet the man of my dreams early in life. He was my second boyfriend and he was everything I was looking for.
Unfortunately not everyone is this fortunate in finding love and it can take years. Do you feel as if you are one of these people? You haven’t been able to find someone that you can connect with and you feel as if everyone you do meet that seems to be close to the right thing is leading you on and hiding who they really are from you?
To keep away from people like this we are going to give you a few tips that will help you to sift through the men who have problems with commitment or who you have nothing in common with. We have a few things that you want to look for in a guy who is looking for a long-term relationship:
1. He is secure financially
According to many studies men who have bought their own home or have no trouble keeping up with their bills and paying for things with a steady job or ready to settle down and find that special someone. He knows that if he were to marry he would be able to take care of her and not the other way around.
2. All or most of his friends are married
When you are hanging out with his friends check to see if they are married. If they are then this could mean that he is likely to want the same thing. He sees what they have and naturally he wishes that he could have the same love that they share. If his friends were still single and living the ‘true bachelor’ life then he might be less likely to want to leave it.
3. He goes after you
There are some men who will show their interest – but will do nothing about it. They won’t ask you out too often or even try to contact you. If you feel that you have to do all of the chasing than he is not worth it. Men who take the time to woo you and to court you are truly interested in more than just a fling.
4. He wants to wait
There are some men who want to push things farther on a more physical level after only a couple dates. More often then not these men are only looking for a good time and nothing permanent. Men who want to wait to get this physical are looking to get to know you better so that nothing is ruined.
5. He wants to meet the family and close friends
If your man tells you that he wants to meet your parents and your best friends than you know he is interested in you and is looking for something long-term. This means that he wants to get to know all of you and everyone that is connected and close to you. This will also give you a chance to get to know him better and to see how he reacts with the people you love.
7. The ‘we’ is used instead of ‘me’
You can stop holding your breath if he is saying ‘we’ instead of ‘me’. This means that he is connecting to you more and is telling the world how he feels.
8. He wants to hear your opinion
If he didn’t want to commit to you then he will not want to hear your opinion and will have no desire to compromise with you. Those who compromise and try to listen to what you want truly cares about you.